What Is a Standard Possession Order in Texas? A Parent’s Guide

When parents separate or divorce, one of the biggest questions is how time with the children will be shared. In Texas, courts often begin with a framework called the Standard Possession Order (SPO).

While it’s a common starting point, the Standard Possession Order is not one-size-fits-all. Understanding how it works can help parents plan ahead and make informed decisions about their parenting schedule.

What Is a Standard Possession Order?

A Standard Possession Order is a guideline used by Texas courts to outline when each parent spends time with their child. It is designed to provide consistency and predictability, particularly when parents are unable to agree on a schedule.

The SPO typically applies when:

• Parents live within a certain geographic distance 

• There are no significant concerns affecting the child’s safety 

• A customized agreement has not been reached 

Courts may adopt the SPO or adjust it depending on the circumstances.

What Does the Standard Schedule Look Like?

While schedules can vary, a traditional Standard Possession Order often includes:

• Weekends: The non-primary parent has the child on the first, third, and fifth weekends of each month 

• Weekday Time: One evening per week during the school year 

• Holidays: Alternating major holidays such as Thanksgiving and Christmas 

• Summer: Extended time during the summer months 

In many cases, Texas courts may also use an expanded Standard Possession Order, which can increase time with the non-primary parent.

Who Is the “Primary” Parent?

In many custody orders, one parent is given the right to determine the child’s primary residence. This parent is often referred to as the “primary” parent.

The other parent typically follows the possession schedule outlined in the order, such as the Standard Possession Order.

Can the Schedule Be Customized?

Yes. The Standard Possession Order is a guideline—not a requirement. Parents can agree to a different schedule that better fits:

• Work schedules 

• School activities 

• The child’s needs and routines 

• Travel or distance considerations 

Courts often approve customized parenting plans if they serve the child’s best interests.

When the Standard Possession Order May Not Apply

There are situations where the SPO may not be appropriate, including:

• When children are very young 

• When parents live far apart 

• When there are concerns affecting the child’s well-being 

• When parents agree on a different arrangement 

In these cases, the court may create a modified schedule tailored to the family.

Why the Standard Possession Order Matters

Even when parents create their own schedule, the SPO provides a helpful reference point. It reflects what Texas courts generally consider reasonable and balanced for parenting time.

Understanding this framework can help guide discussions and set realistic expectations during custody negotiations.

Building a Schedule That Works

Parenting schedules play a key role in a child’s daily life. Clear, consistent arrangements can help reduce conflict and provide stability during a time of change.

If you have questions about the Standard Possession Order or want to explore a parenting schedule that fits your family’s needs, the team at Sims & Purzer is here to help. Share what’s happening, and we’ll walk you through your options and next steps. Schedule a consultation today and take the first step toward a parenting plan that works for your family.